If “Buy now!” makes you cringe…Here’s how smart, successful entrepreneurs are ditching the hype and winning brand loyalty with integrity.
Let’s be honest: most of us didn’t start our business to become a full-time marketer or salesperson.
We started to help people. To create freedom. To make an impact. And yes, to make money—but in a way that feels aligned.
And yet, here we are. Tired of marketing formulas that don’t feel like us. Side-eyeing another bro-style launch with countdown timers and FOMO-laced subject lines. Wondering if there’s a better way to market. How can we do it both effectively AND with integrity?
There is a way. It’s called Values-First Marketing. And it changes everything.
Values-first marketing isn’t just a trend; it’s a return to integrity. Consumers are no longer swayed by hype, pressure, or formulas. It’s how we do business and make sales without the ick. If you are also tired of the bro-y blueprints and high-pressure hacks, this approach is for you.
What Is Values-First Marketing?
Values-first marketing is a strategic approach where your beliefs, mission, and principles guide every part of your messaging. It’s not about crafting the perfect pitch. It’s about making your message mean something.
Instead of chasing conversions, you’re building connection.
At its core, values-first marketing is about leading with what you stand for—and letting that clarity attract the right people.
Values-first marketing invites your audience to partner with you, not just purchase from you.
Think of it like this: When your brand reflects your values, your audience doesn’t need to be convinced. They already believe what you believe. You’re not selling to them. You’re inviting them to come alongside you.
Why We’re All Tired of Traditional Marketing
Let’s name the elephant in the room: bro marketing.
You’ve seen it. The high-pressure, “buy now or lose everything” vibes. The endless “I made $100K overnight” case studies. It’s a hustle culture model that preys on urgency and fear.
And frankly, people are over it.
According to Edelman’s Trust Barometer, 88% of consumers say trust is a top factor when buying from a brand. But only 30% actually trust companies to deliver on their promises.
Here’s what that means: the market doesn’t need another perfect promise. It needs you to be real.
Why Values-First Marketing Actually Works
So why does values-first marketing work so well? Because it changes the entire conversation.
Instead of pushing or persuading, you’re sharing what you believe. You’re showing up fully and saying:
Here’s who we are.
Here’s what we stand for.
Join us if you’re on the same mission.
That’s a whole different energy than chasing conversions.
Here’s what happens when you lead with values:
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- You attract the right people—the ones who already get it.
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- You build loyalty that lasts longer than any promotion.
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- You stand out in a sea of sameness.
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- You stop second-guessing yourself and start showing up with confidence, because you’re not pretending. You’re just being YOU. (Feel the relief there?)
And most importantly? You start to enjoy marketing again.
1. It Builds Trust in a Distrustful Market
Trust is the new currency.
In a world flooded with ads, funnels, and hype, people are tired. They’re smart. They’re skeptical. And they’re craving something real.
88% of consumers say trust is a top factor in their buying decisions
(Edelman Trust Barometer, 2023 Special Report).
That means trust matters just as much as price or quality—sometimes more. And you don’t build trust by using scarcity countdowns or manipulation. You build it by being consistent, honest, and clear about what you stand for.
Before: A wellness coach ran webinars with “limited time only” language and fake urgency. She got short bursts of sign-ups… but no loyalty. People ghosted after the sale.
After: She shifted to talking openly about why she started her practice—to help women reconnect with their bodies after burnout. Her messaging included transparent pricing, stories of real client breakthroughs, and values around rest and intuitive living. That is when clients stayed, referred, and rebooked.
2. It Creates Loyal, Aligned Customers
When your audience believes what you believe, something powerful happens.
They don’t need to be sold to. They already see themselves in your message. You’re speaking the same language, sharing the same values, and walking the same path.
This creates natural conversions—not forced ones.
And loyal, aligned customers? They stick around. They refer you. They become part of your movement, not just a transaction.
Before:
A wellness center marketed itself with generic promises like “feel better fast” and “get results now.” Their social posts focused on discounts, before-and-afters, and trends. It brought in a lot of one-time visits, but very little retention. Clients came for a quick fix—not a long-term relationship.
After:
They realigned their messaging around what truly mattered to them: holistic, preventative care and deep healing. They shared their philosophy about treating root causes instead of symptoms. They highlighted stories of patients who chose long-term wellness over instant results. They made values like “restorative care,” “individual attention,” and “empowered choices” front and center.
Clients started saying, “I’ve been looking for a place like this.”
Instead of price shoppers, they attracted people who shared their vision for slow, intentional healing—and who were willing to invest in it.
3. It Makes You Stand Out (Even in Saturated Markets)
Let’s be real—every industry is crowded right now.
Everyone’s got similar features, similar offers, maybe even similar pricing. But no one else has your exact values, your point of view, or your voice.
That’s what makes values-first marketing so powerful. Your values become your differentiator. They shape your identity. They form an emotional connection that can’t be copied.
Before: A birth center promoted itself like every other clinic—safe, evidence-based, caring. Necessary and good, but not distinctive.
After: They leaned into values-first messaging: centering women’s autonomy, celebrating natural birth, and supporting whole-family care. Their website told powerful stories of birth experiences, community healing, and generational care. That shift made them the only option in the mind of their ideal clients. It made their mothers feel something and invited them to belong—it’s not merely a service.
4. It Removes the “Ick” from Selling
You don’t have to morph into someone you’re not to succeed.
When your marketing is rooted in what matters to you, it gets easier. More natural. Less forced. No pressure. No pretending. Just real connection.
That’s the beauty of values-first marketing. It gives you permission to stop playing the game—and start building a brand that feels good, and performs.
Before: A social media manager was stuck in a cycle of content calendars, dancing reels, and low-ticket courses. She hated it, but thought she had to do it all to “stay relevant.”
After: She got clear that her values were presence, boundaries, and deep work. She cut platforms, raised prices, and only took on clients aligned with slow, intentional marketing. Her revenue went up. Her nervous system calmed down. And her brand felt 100% aligned with who she really was.
That’s the thing about values-first marketing: It’s not just a tactic—it’s a transformation.
You get to show up as your whole self. You get to build a business that is sustainable.
And you get to connect with people who actually want to be in your world—not because you twisted their arm, but because your message felt like home.
Examples of What Values-First Marketing Looks Like In Real World
Values-first marketing turns your business into an invitation. To partner with someone who shares their values. To engage with a brand that makes them feel like they belong.
You’re not just selling services. You’re building meaning.
Example: Dove’s Real Beauty Campaign
How they demonstrate their values:
Dove’s now-iconic Real Beauty campaign began as a direct response to unrealistic beauty standards in the media. Instead of models, they featured real women of every size, race, and age. They banned retouching and launched educational initiatives to boost self-esteem in girls worldwide.
How they lead with their values:
They don’t just run campaigns—they build long-term initiatives, like the Dove Self-Esteem Project. Their marketing consistently pushes back against media pressure and cosmetic perfection. Dove’s brand voice centers compassion, empowerment, and confidence, and it stays aligned across commercials, product packaging, and partnerships.
What has resulted:
Dove became a leader in a crowded personal care industry—not by selling soap, but by championing women. Their value of self-esteem is evident across their brand and all the decisions that they make. Their message has sparked global conversations, built trust across generations, and generated fierce customer loyalty. Their social good is so embedded in the brand that people feel good about buying their products.
Example: Her First 100K
Tori Dunlap doesn’t just teach women to budget and invest. She stands for economic justice and fights the patriarchy. That’s why her audience isn’t just growing. It’s fiercely loyal.
How she demonstrates her values:
What sets her brand apart is her unwavering commitment to fighting the patriarchy through financial education. She names systems of oppression. She teaches women how to build wealth on their own terms. And she’s transparent about her numbers, success, and even mistakes.
How she leads with her values:
Everything—her podcast, her book, her social media—reinforces her core belief: “Financial feminism is about more than money. It’s about power.” She never dilutes her message to be more palatable. Her social media presence is equal parts tactical and transformational—practical tips paired with empowerment messaging that makes women feel seen and unstoppable.
What has resulted:
Her platform exploded—millions of followers, multiple 7-figures in revenue, and features in Forbes, CNBC, and TIME. But more than that? Her audience defends her (not that she needs it!). My point is: they’re not just followers—they’re advocates. That level of loyalty only comes when you lead with clear, unapologetic values.
Example: Kylie Kelce and the “Not Gonna Lie” Podcast
Kylie Kelce notably took Joe Rogan’s No. 1 Podcast Spot when she debuted her podcast.
How she demonstrates her values:
Kylie Kelce doesn’t build her platform around fame or clicks. Her podcast, Not Gonna Lie, is refreshingly real. She brings authenticity to motherhood, friendship, and public life—often highlighting the joy and chaos of being a mom of 3 (with another one on the way) with humor, candor, and an unmistakable sense of camaraderie. She shares candid moments that prioritize connection over curation.
How she leads with her values:
Kylie is relatable. She’s not performing for an audience; she’s sharing her unfiltered opinions and challenging norms—and using her platform as a space for other women to do the same. Kylie consistently uplifts women in her world, and avoids the typical influencer playbook. You never feel “sold to”—you feel seen in the realness and honesty that she shares.
What has resulted:
Kylie’s audience sees her as a friend. That’s rare in a world full of filtered perfection. Her podcast’s popularity continues to rise because she shows up like the girl-next-door who also has something meaningful to say. Her brand feels different—and that’s because it’s led by her values, not algorithms or conversions or fame.
While these examples totally track with my values of supporting strong, mission-driven women and doing marketing differently…it’s worth noting that values-first marketing works across industries, audiences, and belief systems (not just feminist brands). Let’s take a look at a different example.
Example: Patagonia
They don’t just sell outdoor gear. They exist to protect the planet. They’ve donated millions to climate initiatives, sued government agencies over environmental destruction, and literally told customers, “Don’t buy this jacket.”
How they demonstrate their values:
On Black Friday in 2011, nearly every other brand was slashing prices and ramping up urgency. Patagonia ran a full-page ad in The New York Times with a striking headline: “Don’t Buy This Jacket.” Underneath was a photo of one of their best-selling fleece jackets—and a call to consumers to reconsider overconsumption.
The ad wasn’t a stunt. It was a values-first message to their customers saying: We’re not here to feed mindless consumerism. We want you to buy less and buy responsibly. They invited people to think about the environmental cost of production, including water usage, carbon emissions, and waste. Patagonia encouraged customers to only buy what they needed, to repair their old gear, and to recycle what they couldn’t use. They even launched the Worn Wear program to promote used gear and extend the life of their products.
And they meant it. They didn’t just run a single ad. They built systems—repair programs, take-back initiatives, and impact reporting—to support their anti-consumption stance.
How they lead with their values:
Rather than hiding the impact of their supply chain, they spotlight it. They educate customers about what goes into every product. Their website lists carbon footprints per item. Their founder, Yvon Chouinard, has been outspoken for decades about business being a force for good—not just profit.
Their slogan is “We’re in business to save our home planet.” That’s not an exaggeration; it’s their mission.
What resulted:
Patagonia’s revenue grew by 30% after that campaign. But more importantly, their brand loyalty deepened. Customers trusted them more after being told not to buy. They didn’t lose business by being honest. They earned it. Because they led with values, not marketing tricks. And their audience responded with loyalty, trust, and advocacy.
This campaign proved something we all need to remember: sharing the truth—even when it goes against the grain—can build a stronger business than following every so-called “proven” tactic.
These brands don’t need gimmicks. They don’t have to shout. They’re not chasing relevance—they’re building resonance.
Here’s what they all have in common:
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- They know what they stand for.
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- They act on it consistently.
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- They lead with it boldly in their messaging.
And as a result of leading with their values, they build loyal, value-aligned audiences that grow naturally. And that’s why they win.
They create a brand that feels more like a movement.
That’s the power of values-first marketing.
The Process: How to Apply Values-First Marketing to Your Brand
Let’s break this down. Because this isn’t just a philosophy. It’s a strategy that you can implement today.
Step 1: Identify Your Core Values
If you want to build a business that stands for something, you have to start by knowing what you stand for.
This first step is about getting real—not with what sounds good on paper, but what actually drives you. Because people can tell the difference between borrowed values and embodied ones.
Ask yourself:
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- Why did I start this business?
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- What am I unwilling to compromise on?
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- What makes me angry in my industry—and what do I want to do differently?
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- What do I want customers to feel when they interact with my brand?
But don’t stop at internal reflection. Talk to your customers. Pay attention to how they describe you. Sometimes the value they associate with you is even clearer than the one you’ve been trying to articulate.
Also look at your landscape:
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- What are competitors saying… and what are they avoiding?
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- Where’s the white space?
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- What are people craving that no one is delivering with integrity?
Example:
Dove’s Real Beauty campaign wasn’t just a creative idea—it was a direct response to what their customers were saying. Women were tired of being left out of beauty conversations. Dove listened and built a movement around that value: authentic representation.
And if you’re wondering where values come from? They come from everywhere—our upbringing, culture, hardships, mentors, and the moments that cracked us open or lit us up. The goal here is to reflect, observe, and own what’s already true.
Step 2: Align Your Business Practices with Your Values
This is where a lot of brands go wrong. They say they value something… but their actions tell a different story.
You cannot build a values-first brand on misalignment.
If you claim to care about sustainability, are you sourcing ethical materials or just talking about it on Earth Day?
If you say you stand for equity, are you paying your team fairly and hiring diverse talent?
You don’t have to do it perfectly. But you do need to back up your words with action.
Example:
KT Merry is a luxury photographer who donates 20% of every print sale to wildlife conservation. That’s not a marketing gimmick—it’s a business model built around her values. Every sale does something.
Your internal practices should match your external message. That includes:
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- Your policies
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- Your team culture
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- Your partnerships
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- Your systems
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- Your client experience
Even your business hours can be a statement of value. (Example: “We don’t check email after 5pm. We believe rest makes us better.”)
Step 3: Turn Your Values Into Strategy
Once you’re clear on your values and living them in your business, it’s time to bring them into your marketing. Your values aren’t just “good vibes.” They’re a differentiator. They’re your message. They’re the lens through which you should tell stories, write emails, build campaigns, and show up online.
Here’s how:
✔ Speak directly to your audience’s values
Don’t market to their pain points—market to their purpose. Position your offer as the next step for someone who believes what they believe.For example: “You already care about health. You’ve already invested in therapy, yoga, or supplements. This program helps you integrate it all into a lifestyle that works.”
✔ Use storytelling that proves your values in action
Tell stories that demonstrate your values instead of just stating them.Before: “I care about community.”
After: “Last week, I brought 6 local founders together for an impromptu co-working day. We left with new ideas, new connections, and a deeper sense of support.”
✔ Choose values-aligned partnerships and platforms
Who you collaborate with is a marketing statement. What you say no to builds trust just as much as what you say yes to.For Example: Patagonia chose to stop advertising on Facebook due to ethical concerns. That decision cost them visibility—but reinforced their integrity. Their customers respected them even more for making a decision aligned with their values—the values that both Patagonia and their customers share.
✔ Evolve based on feedback
Values-first marketing is a living thing. Ask your community what’s landing. What’s missing. What feels real. Be willing to pivot if the way you’re expressing your values isn’t matching the impact you want to make.For Example: Meta (formerly Facebook) had to reposition their brand around transparency and trust after major privacy backlash. Not because they got it right the first time—but because they had to listen and rebuild.
At the end of the day, values-first marketing isn’t a trend. It’s a return to what marketing should be: real, human, and rooted in connection.
It lets you build a brand that’s magnetic, not manipulative. It removes the “ick” and replaces it with integrity. And it gives your audience a clear reason to say yes—not just to what you sell, but to the mission you are on together.
If you lead with your values, the right people will follow.
You Don’t Have to Shout. You Just Have to Stand Firm.
Values-first marketing gives you an unshakable foundation. When you lead with values, you don’t need to shout to be heard. You don’t need to persuade people to believe in you. You simply need to show them who you are.
This is how you create content that converts. Messaging that moves. Brand loyalty that lasts. Because when your business is rooted in values, your marketing becomes an extension of your mission.If you’d like help implementing this in your business, book a call with me here. You can also get started by downloading my free audit here.